TGIF v.44

It’s weird. Things have been crazy busy and yet not. My downtime has been spent being a complete couch potato and I’ve been feeling uninspired to blog anything of value.

Regardless, here’s a quick little update on what’s been going on this week!

A high of the week was receiving some pretty amazing customer service from lululemon! Long story short, the zippers broke on two of my favourite hoodies/jackets, and they offered to give me a full refund via e-gift card so I can shop online for some replacement gear.

A low of the week was losing out on putting an offer in on a great house because we hmm’d and haw’d about it for too long. Ugh.

An internet find I loved was this video of two guy blocking in someone who accomplished douchebag status with his parking job. (As it turns out, it was totally staged, but more people need to do this to bad parkers!)

 

 

The best money I spent was new sandals for Isla and I. Can’t go wrong with BOGO 50%, right?

My favourite Isla and/or Norah moment was Norah harnessing her inner cat:

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She fits, she sits. ;)

 

A song that has been stuck in my head is “Believer” by Imagination Dragons, and also the entire Moana soundtrack. (“What can I saaaay except you’re welcome!”)

My meals of the week were steak kabobs with mushrooms, peppers, red onion and zucchini, meatballs, tomato and spinach pasta with Italian sausage, fried chicken and chicken wings with potato wedges.

My plans for the weekend are prepping the kitchen to have our new countertops installed(!!!), taking Isla to a birthday party, having Mommy & Me photos taken with my mom and the girls, and slo-pitch!

What’s exciting in your life?

Tiny Happy Tuesday VI

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  • My slo-pitch team got together for a practice on Sunday and it was great to be back out on the field. The season officially starts on the 16th and I’m looking forward to another great year of ball.
  • The sun is showing its face more and our backyard has dried up enough for me to put together the climber I found on a local buy/swap Facebook page. The girls loved playing on it so I’m happy I was able to snatch it up!
  • I started a VarageSale page for all the baby stuff I’m purging out of my house. There’s so much to list and while I’m still putting individual items and lots in separate buy/sell Facebook groups it’s nice to have this option as well for friends and/or family.
  • There are a little less than 20 days until the Boogie the Bridge race and I’m nervous/excited for it. Isla will be doing the kid’s 1km “race,” I’ll be doing 5kms, and Kyle will be doing 10kms. Isla’s been looking forward to this one as she gets to “chase” a clown, but I think she’s more excited for the Blackwell Dairy 3km Fun Run as there’s ice cream for her at the finish line ;)

That’s all for today. What’s making you happy?

What I’m Reading: Small Great Things

28587957From the book jacket:
Ruth Jefferson is a labor and delivery nurse at a Connecticut hospital with more than twenty years’ experience. During her shift, Ruth begins a routine checkup on a newborn, only to be told a few minutes later that she’s been reassigned to another patient. The parents are white supremacists and don’t want Ruth, who is African American, to touch their child. The hospital complies with their request, but the next day, the baby goes into cardiac distress while Ruth is alone in the nursery. Does she obey orders or does she intervene?

Ruth hesitates before performing CPR and, as a result, is charged with a serious crime. Kennedy McQuarrie, a white public defender, takes her case but gives unexpected advice: Kennedy insists that mentioning race in the courtroom is not a winning strategy. Conflicted by Kennedy’s counsel, Ruth tries to keep life as normal as possible for her family—especially her teenage son—as the case becomes a media sensation. As the trial moves forward, Ruth and Kennedy must gain each other’s trust, and come to see that what they’ve been taught their whole lives about others—and themselves—might be wrong.

With incredible empathy, intelligence, and candor, Jodi Picoult tackles race, privilege, prejudice, justice, and compassion—and doesn’t offer easy answers. Small Great Things is a remarkable achievement from a writer at the top of her game.

My review:
I don’t believe that I have been so moved in so many different ways by a book until I read Small Great Things. I laughed, cried, and was enraged. I questioned my own believes. I think Small Great Things did everything it was supposed to do, and that was to help in opening your eyes, if only a mere millimetre more, to show how regardless of how non-racist we may make ourselves out to be, can we really comment on it?

Small Great Things made me reflect upon my own experiences with racism and how it’s affected me and how I reflect it. Do I overcompensate to try “show off” my acceptance? Does the fact that I’m bi-racial make it OK for me to joke about race? (Specifically my own.) Is race an issue in the city I live in? The province? The country? There’s a thousand different answers and depending on your own beliefs, there’s no wrong one.

I know many other readers were skeptical of Picoult tackling this subject because she is, by the book’s very own standard, privileged, but I believe it takes a certain amount of guts to delve this deep into racism, especially considering today’s political issues. She acknowledged the fact that she felt out of place writing a book about race, but I think she gave it her all and did the best she could.

I know no one, no matter what your race, can relate to or know what it’s like to be someone else – White, Black, Asian, Middle Eastern, Indian, etc., but we can at least open our eyes and try to understand.

I feel like I’ve gone off on a bit of a tangent, so back to the book itself. Safe to say – I loved Small Great Things and its characters, yes, even Turk. While his beliefs are obviously filled with hate it was heart-wrenching reading about what he went through with his son. I can appreciate Ruth’s apprehension working with Kennedy and ultimately deciding to go with her gut. I can understand Edison’s turn in personality and attitude as he tries to figure out who he is.

Small Great Things is a timely read and I highly recommend it. I give it 5 stars out of 5.