Living in Strata

When Kyle and I first bought our place, we only had one hesitation: Strata.

Sure, that means everyone has to play according to the same set of rules, but sometimes, it’s easier not having any, or at least not have a strict set of rules. You already have to follow City Bylaws, but adding another set of underlying rules on top of that can push the limit.

One example: City bylaws say that one residence cannot own more than two dogs and two cats. Our strata bylaws only allow one dog and one cat.

Of course, there’s always exceptions made to the rules, both with City and Strata bylaws. There are some people in our complex who have two dogs, and I’m sure there’s some who have two cats.

But then there’s the people who just ignore the rules.

Example: Our strata bylaws say that you must have your dog on a leash at all times while on “community” property (Basically, anywhere outside of your own fenced area). When Kyle and I first moved in, there was a little old lady who would let her toy poodle out on the community grass (without a leash) to do its business. As a result, it came wandering over to our fence and started barking at Daphne. Because we have a completely fenced yard, it was no big deal and the woman came and got her dog. However, if we DIDN’T have a fenced yard and Daphne WAS leashed, she still probably would’ve gotten into a scrap with this tiny dog, of course making her look like the bad guy even though the lady wasn’t following the rules. UGH!

Now, I think the old lady gets that there’s a giant dog a couple doors down and I haven’t seen the dog since. Thankfully, I didn’t have to complain to the strata board that her dog was running about sans leash.

Another example: The unit next to us has no one living in it because the lady passed away a couple months ago. The unit on the other side of that unit (so two doors up from us) seems to think that they can use that parking spot as their own. Strata bylaws say you’re only allowed to park in your unit’s assigned parking, in visitor parking, or on the street.

So far, Kyle and I have been trying to ignore it. Sure, we’ve thought about complaining. We’ve also thought about using the spot ourselves but choose not to because knowing our luck, that will be when someone complains.

Our problem is, do we complain, making potential enemies with the neighbours (they’re young and kinda douchey, so we wouldn’t really care), or do we ignore it? Being new and all, we’re apprehensive to raise a stink because we don’t want to be labeled as the Complainers.

What would you do? Ignore it or mention it to the Board?

Really, they’re not hurting us, but it’s not very respectful to park in your neighbour’s driveway, dead or alive.

Does anyone else live in a Strata complex? What are your rules like?

Oh Baby!

On Monday evening, Kyle’s best friend from high school became a father to an adorable baby girl they named Presli.

Last night, we went to visit the proud new parents and the baby is adorable. So much hair!

Borrowed from her Momma’s Facebook page

Kyle even said she was cute, which is great because he was certain she was going to be a goofy looking kid, lol.

The greatest thing for me? I’m not jealous. I don’t know why, but I’m not. Yeah, I want one, but I’m not jealous of them.

There’s actually a lot of people I know who are getting married and having kids, but I’m still not particularly jealous. Kyle and I have just taken a different path, a windy one, but we’ll get to where we want to be eventually. And I’m okay with that.

Ten on Tuesday

1. What does your work out schedule look like?

Right now, it’s non-existent. Previously, when I had the time, I would go to the gym two or three times a week and do about 20-30 minutes of good, hard cardio. I’d also go to a strength class once a week for an hour.

2. What is your favorite machine to use at the gym?

The elliptical! The treadmill made me feel funny after I used it, like I was still moving. Scary!

3. What is your favorite class to take at the gym?

The strengthening class that I went to. It made my muscles feel and look amazing!

4. Where do you shop for work out gear and clothing?

Lululemon. Yeah, kinda stereotypical, but their clothing is SO comfy, I can’t resist.

5. If you can’t go to the gym, do you have a favorite outdoor activity?

I used to play soccer, and I wish I still had time to. I miss it! Softball was really fun though in the summer. Hopefully I’ll be able to play again.

6. What about a favorite work out DVD? If so, please share!

I quite like Jillian Michael’s Yoga Meltdown. She’s scary intense!

7. Are you more active now or when you were in high school?

Definitely when I was in high school. Definitely!

8. How has your dieting/working out philosophy changed since high school?

I actually have to make an effort to work out now. In high school, I just played sports, so that kept me active. Now that I’m busier, it’s harder to make the time to be active.

9. What do you do while working out– (i.e., day dream, read, listen to music, gab with a friend)?

I always had my iPod at the gym, and usually I’d bring a magazine to flip through to keep my eyes away from the crazy hardcore people working out a zillion times harder than me. Show offs.

10. What working out resolution would you like to make for yourself this year?

Find a routine that works for me and STICK TO IT. That’s my biggest flaw I think, not sticking to a routine and making excuses to break it.