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What I’m Reading: The Birth House

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From Goodreads.com:
The Birth House is the story of Dora Rare, the first daughter to be born in five generations of the Rare family. As a child in an isolated village in Nova Scotia, she is drawn to Miss Babineau, an outspoken Acadian midwife with a gift for healing and a kitchen filled with herbs and folk remedies. During the turbulent years of World War I, Dora becomes the midwife’s apprentice. Together, they help the women of Scots Bay through infertility, difficult labors, breech births, unwanted pregnancies and even unfulfilling sex lives.

When Gilbert Thomas, a brash medical doctor, comes to Scots Bay with promises of fast, painless childbirth, some of the women begin to question Miss Babineau’s methods – and after Miss Babineau’s death, Dora is left to carry on alone. In the face of fierce opposition, she must summon all of her strength to protect the birthing traditions and wisdom that have been passed down to her.

Filled with details that are as compelling as they are surprising-childbirth in the aftermath of the Halifax Explosion, the prescribing of vibratory treatments to cure hysteria and a mysterious elixir called Beaver Brew-The Birth House is an unforgettable tale of the struggles women have faced to maintain control over their own bodies and to keep the best parts of tradition alive in the world of modern medicine.

My review:
Today in Canada, or at least in BC, pregnant women have the option to choose a midwife or a doctor for their pre- and post-natal care. Both are covered through health care and both are fully capable of delivering a baby into the world in a safe and efficient manner. I picked up this book to read not only for the Canadian content, but to maybe understand midwives a little bit more.

Back in the early 1900’s, especially in the rural communities such as Scots Bay, NS, midwives like Dora Rare and Miss. B were the ones who “caught” babies. There was no official schooling, just methods passed down from teacher to student. I really like reading this book and it really opened up my thoughts to midwives. Miss B is a wise lady and is rightfully sceptical of Dr. Thomas. Canada was still a very young country at this time, especially in rural areas, and the change of time was slower. New methods of medicine, in the case of this story, childbirth, were not always welcomed with open arms. The doctor’s “Wham-bam” method of delivering babies leaves Dora and Miss B leery and afraid for the women of their community.

Like the Goodreads description states, there are several tidbits of information that spring true from the time period – The Halifax explosion, the hysteria treatments (which made me laugh a little bit), as well as the influenza outbreak in Boston.

I really enjoyed this book not only for the historical factor, but also for the medical factor. It shows not only how much medicine has changed over the years, but also the roots of some of the herbal medicine you see today. Many of the herbal remedies that were mentioned in The Birth House I’ve heard of today. Dora’s story is also compelling – her journey through midwifing, love, and loss drew me in.

Overall, I give The Birth House 4 stars out of 5.

Reading the book didn’t make me want to ditch my doctor and switch to a midwife for my next pregnancy, because I don’t think doctors today are as radical as they were back then, but like I said, it opened my eyes. Midwives are just as capable of delivering babies as doctors, and tend to show more compassionate care than some doctors (Not that doctors don’t show compassion, because many do).

What are your thoughts on Midwives vs. Doctors? If you’ve had a baby – What made you decide which one to “use?” If you haven’t – which route do you think you’ll go with? Why?

What I’m Reading: Inside

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Synopsis from Goodreads.com:
When Grace, an exceedingly competent and devoted therapist in Montreal, stumbles across a man who has just failed to hang himself, her instinct to help kicks in immediately. Before long, however, she realizes that her feelings for this charismatic, extremely guarded stranger are far from straightforward. In the meantime, her troubled teenage patient, Annie, runs away from home and soon will reinvent herself in New York as an aspiring and ruthless actress, as unencumbered as humanly possible by any personal attachments. 

And Mitch, Grace’s ex-husband, who is a therapist as well, leaves the woman he’s desperately in love with to attend to a struggling native community in the bleak Arctic. We follow these four compelling, complex characters from Montreal and New York to Hollywood and Rwanda, each of them with a consciousness that is utterly distinct and urgently convincing. 

With razor-sharp emotional intelligence, Inside poignantly explores the many dangers as well as the imperative of making ourselves available to—and responsible for—those dearest to us.

My review:
I wasn’t completely sure what to expect out of this book, considering it wasn’t the usual happy & fluffy genre of chick-lit I usually steer towards, but I decided to go for it anyway. While I didn’t LOVE love the book, I did enjoy it.

Each character has their own storyline, all while being intertwined at the same time. I think I enjoyed following Grace’s story the most, mostly because of the relationship she develops with the man she found while out skiing. If there were a main character of the book, I suppose it would be Grace as she has the most interaction with all of the other characters.

**SPOILER ALERT!**

The book drew me in by pulling on my psychological heart strings; every page turn made me want to figure out each character a little more, and this leads to the reason why I didn’t enjoy Inside as much as I had hoped I would, because I really wanted to know MORE. I found that there were a lot of loose ends in the character’s stories – Why Grace closed her practice (To give a better life for her daughter? Because it was pulled by the board after Annie’s incident?), why Annie chose to run away, why Mitch and Grace split up to begin with … I suppose this is a reflection of the underlying theme of the book. A need to know more about a person’s life is something that therapists and psychologists are always battling with, so it makes sense why the author chose to write this way.

Overall, I’d give Inside 3.5 stars out of 5. I really wanted more out of the characters, but the style of the book wasn’t allowing that.

What I’m Reading: Gone Girl

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Synopsis from Goodreads.com:
Marriage can be a real killer. 
One of the most critically acclaimed suspense writers of our time, New York Times bestseller Gillian Flynn takes that statement to its darkest place in this unputdownable masterpiece about a marriage gone terribly, terribly wrong. The Chicago Tribune proclaimed that her work “draws you in and keeps you reading with the force of a pure but nasty addiction.” Gone Girl’s toxic mix of sharp-edged wit and deliciously chilling prose creates a nerve-fraying thriller that confounds you at every turn. 
On a warm summer morning in North Carthage, Missouri, it is Nick and Amy Dunne’s fifth wedding anniversary. Presents are being wrapped and reservations are being made when Nick’s clever and beautiful wife disappears from their rented McMansion on the Mississippi River. Husband-of-the-Year Nick isn’t doing himself any favors with cringe-worthy daydreams about the slope and shape of his wife’s head, but passages from Amy’s diary reveal the alpha-girl perfectionist could have put anyone dangerously on edge. Under mounting pressure from the police and the media—as well as Amy’s fiercely doting parents—the town golden boy parades an endless series of lies, deceits, and inappropriate behavior. Nick is oddly evasive, and he’s definitely bitter—but is he really a killer? 
As the cops close in, every couple in town is soon wondering how well they know the one that they love. With his twin sister, Margo, at his side, Nick stands by his innocence. Trouble is, if Nick didn’t do it, where is that beautiful wife? And what was in that silvery gift box hidden in the back of her bedroom closet?
With her razor-sharp writing and trademark psychological insight, Gillian Flynn delivers a fast-paced, devilishly dark, and ingeniously plotted thriller that confirms her status as one of the hottest writers around.

My review:
I stared at this book in my Kobo “Wish list” for a looooong time before finally buying it. Thriller books aren’t my M.O., but holy crap, am I glad I did! I couldn’t put the book down!

The book is split up into two “parts,” and I thought that I had it all figured out after the first part – Why Amy went missing, who did it, etc. And then the second part of the book started and holy mother, was I wrong! There were points in the book where I wanted to scream at the characters for being so crazy. I really can’t say much because it will give it away, but wow, is one of the characters so NEEDY. (Those who have read it probably know who I’m talking about!)

They do a sneaky thing with this book that makes you unable to put it down by alternating between Amy & Nick’s stories. There seems to be cliffhangers at the end of every chapter, but of course, to get to the next chapter about Nick, you have to read Amy’s chapter. Then hers will be intense, so of course, you HAVE to read what happens to her next, so you read through Nick and his is interesting so … vicious cycle!

Overall, I give this book 4.5 stars out of 5! (Why can’t Goodreads have a half-star system?)

What did you think of this book?