Just a poke and a scratch

According to this article, 1/4 of people between the ages of 18 and 50 have a tattoo and 15% have a piercing.

I guess if you were to put Kyle, my roommate, his girlfriend and myself in a room, the tattoo statement would ring true. I have a few and it seems like they’re becoming a lot more popular these days.

I got my first tattoo when I was 18, after I had graduated from high school and moved to Kamloops. I drew it up myself after hours of boredom in my first-year Microeconomics course and after thinking about it, I got tattooed…

My first tattoo!

It was an interesting experience, but in the end, it was worth it. I’d eventually like to get it touched up since I was a little jumpy in some areas, but the pain left me wanting more! I eventually got a few more tattoos:

Cherry blossoms. They go from my left hip to my right shoulder.

Chinese characters. My grandparents gave me a Chinese name when I was born and also wrote it out in REAL Chinese characters.
This says “Miu Seng,” which if I remember correctly, translates into “beautiful flower.”

My dog paws are the most visible tattoo I have.

It’s interesting to hear people’s comments about my tattoos; Once a random stranger actually grabbed my shoulder (gently-ish) and demanded to know what my Chinese characters meant. That was weird, but I expect it because people have a natural curiosity.

My ears, however, are the modification that get the most attention:

Okay, so I get bored …

I started stretching my ears when I was in Grade 12 and finally stopped a couple years ago. They’re about 1/2″ in diameter when I have jewelry in them. Needless to say, I get a lot of comments on them, most of them neutral, curious ones, some good and hardly negative. The most common question? “Did it hurt?” My answer? A little, but not quite. It’s not a stinging sensation, but  more of a burn I guess. I’ve always got a professional to do it with a taper and lots of lube, lol.

The next common question is “Well, what are you going to do when you’re older?” (which is usually asked by older citizens) to which I respond “Well, I figure I’d hang my cane from them so I don’t misplace it.” Like my tattoos, I started stretching my ears knowing that people were going to ask questions. I didn’t do it because I wanted attention, I did it because I like the way it looks, but I was very well prepared for comments and remarks.

My biggest concern has always been whether or not my stretched lobes would hinder my ability to get a job. Personally, I think businesses have become more relaxed about these kind of issues. My current boss actually bought me a pair of awesome plugs for Christmas! But still, it’s a concern. I try to keep my hair covering my ears for important events where I have to meet bigwigs and especially at job interviews. I figure, if I’m the perfect match for the job, who cares what my ears look like? Of course, if it’s a conservative business, they may have concerns, but they couldn’t fire me over it, could they?

Anyway, I like my ears the way they are, and a random stranger recently told me that they suit me very well :)

I’d like to know, and be honest, What are your opinions on people with tattoos and piercings? Is there a line between “too much” and the “perfect” amount of piercings or tattoos?

Plain Jane

I’ve never been the kind of girl who needs at least an hours to get ready to go in the morning. Excluding eating breakfast and warming my car in the morning (Hey, Canadian winters are cold!) it usually takes me about 20-25 minutes to shower, get dressed and do what I need to do in the morning.

I’m always amazed by girls who refuse to leave the house without their full-blown make up done and hair looking perfect. I could never spend that much time caring about how I look in the morning. For me, it’s moisturizer, concealer and a touch of mascara in the morning. I’m rather plain Jane that way, and I like it.

Kyle has asked a couple times why I don’t wear make-up more often. Friends have “done up” my face on a couple occasions before going out to the bar and I really don’t think it improved my appearance at all. Maybe it’s because my odd Asian eyelids hide any trace of eyeshadow applied. Who knows.

Anyway, I wish women weren’t so concerned about their appearances sometimes, and I’m not talking about weight or anything. Sure, if you have a giant zit that you need to cover up, okay, but do you really need to wear eight pounds of make-up to go to the grocery store? Probably not. Do you think guys will notice that you don’t have your make-up on? Probably not. Will they be attracted to you anyway? Probably. Most guys like a natural look.

What about you? Are you “natural” or can you not live without your eyeliner?